John Stillwell/PA Images via Getty Sophie Winkleman said in a new interview that her royal wedding wasn't a priority as she was preparing to move to Los Angeles for a job Lady Frederick called her hair "disgusting" and said her mother-in-law chose her dress, but looking back, she would have worn something different Sophie, a mom of two, said the British royal family is "very sweet. I love all of them" Looking back,Sophie Winklemanwould change a few things about her wedding day style. The British actress, 44, married into the royal family in 2009 when she wed Lord Frederick Windsor, the son of Prince Michael of Kent,Queen Elizabeth's first cousin. However, she wasn't very focused on her nuptials at the time. "It was such a blur because we had to move to Los Angeles the day after [the wedding], and I had to start a brand new job the day after that," Lady Frederick Windsor said in a new interview withThe Telegraph, published on May 27. "So we got married on Saturday and moved everything, our whole lives, out to America the day after. And I'd been so concentrating on the work that I hadn't thought about the wedding." "Which meant that my hair was so disgusting, and Freddie still gets upset about it," she added. "It was just disgusting." John Stillwell/PA Images via Getty Sophie added that her mother-in-law, Princess Michael of Kent, chose her bridal gown, "which was very sweet and puffy, but I looked barking." "She sort of took it all over, and I actually didn't mind at all. I thought, 'Great, do everything,' " she recalled. "I was concentrating on this acting job and saying goodbye to my darling granny, who wasn't very well, and just doing other stuff. But now I look back on it and think I should have worn a simpler dress, and I should have got my hair blow-dried by someone who'd done it before." But Sophie, whose acting credits includePeep ShowandTwo and a Half Men,is a fan of her husband's side of the family. "Family isn't always brilliant, but this lot are very sweet. I love all of them," she told the outlet. John Stillwell/PA Images via Getty Sophie and Lord Frederik welcomed their first daughter — Maud, now 11 —while living in California. They added another daughter, Isabella, in 2016 after moving back to the U.K. The family of four regularly joins the British royal family at events, includingKate Middleton'sannual Christmas carol concertin December. But as a mom, Sophie is concerned about screen use, especially in the classroom. She revealed that her children's schools "gave them iPads without telling me." "So they're on screen for a lot of the day. They come home, they open up the damn thing again, and they're on screen for two hours doing homework," she said. "And it's such a physically unhealthy way to learn. It's so bad for their eyesight, it's bad for their posture, it's bad for their sleep rhythms. It's even bad for hormones, and it's terrible cognitively." Karwai Tang/WireImage Can't get enough of PEOPLE's Royals coverage?Sign up for our free Royals newsletterto get the latest updates on Kate Middleton, Meghan Markle and more! Lady Frederick has teamed up with social psychologist Jonathan Haidt and actor Hugh Grant to advocate against screen use in the classroom, and she made a speech at the Alliance for Responsible Citizenship (ARC) conference in London earlier this year on the topic. However, she admits that her daughter does have an old iPhone that doesn't have any apps, which allows her to send "sweet little texts." Read the original article onPeople